Teeing Off with Dad
As I approach my mid-thirties, I find myself seeking new ways to connect with my aging dad. Our relationship has always been solid, but with the business of my adult life, finding quality time together became a challenge. That's when we stumbled upon an unexpected solution - golf.
Growing up, my dad was always the one teaching me new things, from riding a bike to fixing a leaky faucet. But as I got older, things changed and I became more independent. But, I realized my dad is getting older and we were slowly drifting farther apart.
It started with a casual conversation. Dad mentioned his love for golf and how he used to play regularly with his buddies. I confessed I'd never swung a club in my life. That's when he suggested hitting the course together. I was hesitant at first, unsure if I had the time or skill to take on such a challenge. But the thought of spending time with my dad, away from the distractions of everyday life, seemed like something I should give a try.
So, our weekly golf outings began. Every Saturday afternoon, we meet at the local golf course. Dad not only gave me golf tips, but we also shared a ton of laughs and have created an opening for bigger conversations. With each hole we play, he shares stories, dreams, and life advice. There's something about the calmness of the golf course that allows meaningful conversation. Surrounded by lush greenery and chirping birds, we find ourselves opening up in ways we never had before. As the weeks turned into months, I noticed a big shift in our relationship. Golfing became our time to reconnect and strengthen our bond.
The coolest part has been my dad becoming my teacher again. As he patiently guides me through the nuances of the game, I realize just how much wisdom he has to offer. He is not only a mentor to me, but also a friend. And with each game, I can see the pride in my dad's eyes as he watches me improve.
Golf has been the catalyst, but the real win lies in the memories we've created along the way. I hope we have many more rounds together and many more conversations for years to come.
